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Newsflash – I have always known that there was something wrong with me. But for the longest time, I did not know what it was. As I became older, I realized that I tied my “internal awkwardness” to a …
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Member Question – I have a friend that I believe needs to make some changes in his life. How should I let him know what I am thinking? He is not sinning, but I believe he is making some unwise …
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Mable has struggled for many years with guilt. All of it is real, though much of it is not her fault. After twenty years of fighting, the "true and false" of her guilt is so convoluted that it is hard …
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Sometimes unforgiveness can be utilized as a tool for protection or a weapon for destruction in a relationship. It usually happens after a person has been hurting for a while, or has been …
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Mable has been a Christian for 25 years. She just turned 42 and is a member of a solid church. Mable's husband divorced her nine years ago and she has not remarried. Her current dress size is …
Lingering regret is ongoing sadness about a disappointing moment from your past. It is different from temporal sorrow. Temporary sad periods are normal human emotional responses to undesirable …
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