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Ep. 248 A Key Aspect to Marriage If You Want to Be One Flesh

Ep. 248 A Key Aspect If You Want to Be One Flesh

Shows Main Idea – “I cannot imagine a situation where my wife was struggling with something, and I, as her husband, was not part of the process of helping her. I’m not saying I would be at every counseling session with her, but I would… Continue Reading …

Biblical Sexuality and Its Distortions: From Bad to Good

Biblical Sexuality and Its Distortions_ From Bad to Good

Physical intimacy in a marriage is a vital assessment of how a couple relates to each other. The challenge is having transparent conversations about their sexual relationship. If left unattended, sexual desires rarely cease but take on distortions that adversely impact the couple. Mable found… Continue Reading …

Powerful and Practical Questions to Change Your Marriage

Most of the counseling that I do is marriage counseling. The reasons are that most folks who seek help are married and marriage is a context where two sinful people have to live within proximity to each other for an extended period. Sin is always… Continue Reading …

Let Me Draw You a Picture of a Marriage in Trouble

The best marriages are those where the distinct uniqueness of each partner works in a beautiful symmetry that enhances each person’s strengths and weaknesses. The worst marriages are those partners who do not know how to help the other person to mature into the best… Continue Reading …

Mind Mapping a Marriage from Bad to Good

Our behaviors reveal our hearts. If you get a discerning handle on a person’s actions, you will find clues to what may be going on in their heart. This kind of careful consideration of others will position you to be a “more effective Jesus” to… Continue Reading …

Guidelines for Making Decisions as a Couple

Biblical decision-making is not that difficult if you are the only one making the decision. There are challenges, of course, but it’s much easier if you’re the only one affected by the decision. Once the number of contributors to the decision-making process increase, the more challenging it… Continue Reading …

I’m Living Alone in My Marriage

One of the more common complaints I hear from spouses is when one of the partners in the marriage talk about being alone in the marriage. These lonely spouses perceive a seemingly invisible barrier between them. It’s a level of communication they cannot move past.… Continue Reading …

There Are No His or Her Problems In Marriage

There are no his versus her problems in a marriage. There are one flesh problems. Your physical body is an excellent illustration of this. If your finger is hurting, your body is aching. If there is something wrong with your one flesh marriage, regardless of… Continue Reading …

His Money, Her Money Is Not Biblical Common Cents

One flesh means one in all things. The analogy of the left hand knowing what the right hand is doing is clear. The left hand and the right hand are part of one body. The left hand does not say to the right hand, “I… Continue Reading …

Marriage Devotion Day 1 – We Are One In Communication

Day 1 - We Are One In Communication

One of the more common complaints I hear from spouses is when one of the partners in the marriage talks about being alone—in their union. These lonely spouses perceive a seemingly invisible barrier between the spouses. It’s a level of communication they cannot change. Listen… Continue Reading …