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To Be the Man You Must Nourish and Cherish Your Wife

If you are married, do you hate yourself? Let me ask it another way, “Do you dislike your spouse?” If you do struggle with your wife, you struggle with yourself because you’re not two individuals but one flesh. Whatever your thoughts are about your spouse… Continue Reading …

From Adultery to Restoration in Thirteen Steps

The path to dysfunction is unmarked and hidden. Nobody knows they are on it until it’s too late. There are subtle indicators, but we rarely discern them. The most apparent one is an “I deserve better” attitude, which is what happened to Biff. Listen to… Continue Reading …

Submitting Your Life to the Foolishness of God

Frequently, our most pressing need is not our most important need. Sometimes God works in unsuspecting ways, maybe ways we did not perceive or even want. Ironically, His ways can seem foolish to the natural mind, as well as the spiritual mind. Listen to the… Continue Reading …

From Dating to Divorce and How We Got There

Marriage counseling is the most common kind of counseling that I do. The reason for this is because marriages are the most common, long-term relationship between two people. Children typically leave home after a couple of decades. Siblings tend to separate from each other as… Continue Reading …

The Best Thing Some Parents Can Do Is Stop Parenting

You cannot create unity from disunity. “Kind begets kind,” as the King James Bible tells us. What goes in will come out. If disunity is what is in your marriage, disunity is what will come out of it. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are… Continue Reading …

You’ve Been Lied to About Your Marriage

Your perspectives are essential because whatever they are, they are the reasons why you do what you do. The lens through which you see things determines how you respond to life. You may want to read: You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore… Continue Reading …

You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore

The most effective way to know if you can live out biblical love is when you find yourself in a relational context in which you are disappointed by someone. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google Play, SoundCloud, TuneIn, or Stitcher. If… Continue Reading …

How to Help the Domineering Husband and Doormat Wife

God has called the body of Christ to intervene when oppressive family relationships are in its midst. The church should be the safest place in the world for hurting people. You may want to read: A Short Prayer on Walking in the Spirit A Good… Continue Reading …

When It’s Okay to Go Against Your Husband’s Wishes

There may be times in life when the best way for you to honor the Lord is to go against your husband’s wishes. Total subservience to your husband without appeal or alternatives is not taught in the Bible. You may want to read: How to… Continue Reading …

The Orientation of Your Home: Follow the Leader

Every home has a leader. Someone must be in charge while everyone else follows. What’s the orientation of your home? Who’s in charge? Who can you trust to take the reins of your family? Who do you want to lead? Listen to the podcast Our… Continue Reading …