Telling the whole truth and nothing but the truth is a good goal, but it is not always wise to reveal everything that you know within any relationship. There is a time to be quiet and a time to speak, and you must know the… Continue Reading …

Most of the counseling that I do is marriage counseling. The reasons are that most folks who seek help are married and marriage is a context where two sinful people have to live within proximity to each other for an extended period. Sin is always… Continue Reading …

Your perspectives are essential because whatever they are, they are the reasons why you do what you do. The lens through which you see things determines how you respond to life. You may want to read: You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore… Continue Reading …

Does your wife show concern about what you do? Does she check up on you? Is she mostly aware or unaware of your thoughts and activities? Which of the following three categories best describe your wife’s attention to the details of your life? Listen to… Continue Reading …

The path to a “small god” begins in childhood. It leads to self-reliant living, which is always destructing to relationships. The way out of this type of dysfunction is possible with a little help from competent friends. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on… Continue Reading …

Being a Christian is not all you need to have satisfying relationships if your Christianity does not connect you deeply with God and others. The Christian experience is spiritual first and functional second. If you’re not connected spiritually, your function will be religion, and nothing… Continue Reading …

Would you be willing to write about living with an immature husband and how to biblically respond to him? I need help; if you could give me some advice, I would much appreciate it. You may want to read: How To Biblically Lead Your Husband… Continue Reading …

Imperfect people is a universal problem. Most of the time we do not struggle with this truth about our fallenness. Until we start living with one of them. These seven tips will help you. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google Play,… Continue Reading …

How honest can you be with your spouse? Is your marriage vulnerable and safe enough to communicate honestly? Are you free from critique and condemnation, which releases you to talk transparently? Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google Play, SoundCloud, TuneIn, or… Continue Reading …

What is the consistent spiritual direction of your home? And who is leading the family in that direction? Who is following? There is only one right answer to these questions: the Lord is the one leading, and everyone else is following. Listen to the podcast… Continue Reading …