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What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader, and Are You One?

What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader, and Are You One_

The litmus test for a true Christian leader is their ability to replicate themselves into someone else. For the Christian leader, he’s exporting his Christ-life to another individual so that person can be Christlike. If a leader does not replicate himself into another, the Christian… Continue Reading …

The Surprising Truth of Why a Husband Devalues His Wife

The Surprising Truth Why a Husband Devalues His Wife

Mable met Biff when she was seventeen. He seemed to be the perfect guy, at least to her. Biff showed love to her, and she liked the idea of someone loving her. Within a year of dating, they were having sex. She realized her “value”… Continue Reading …

One Reason Children Rebel Against Their Parents

Children are one of God’s many gifts to parents. And as parents, we have the responsibility and the privilege to guide them into a practically biblical experience of knowing and loving God (Deuteronomy 6:4-9). Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google Play, SoundCloud,… Continue Reading …

The Most Blessed Relationship Two People Can Have

Being a Christian is not all you need to have satisfying relationships if your Christianity does not connect you deeply with God and others. The Christian experience is spiritual first and functional second. If you’re not connected spiritually, your function will be religion, and nothing… Continue Reading …

The Fallacy and Futility Of Self-Esteem

The Fallacy and Futility of Self-Esteem

The idea of self-esteem has been around for a long time. It’s one of the major planks of the culture’s gospel. Because we live in the world, it’s imperative to be careful about engaging the world, especially when it comes to their psychology. Listen to… Continue Reading …

Loving Me: The Hidden Agenda of Self-Esteem

Thinking more about yourself is not the path to freedom. The self-esteem agenda demands that you turn your thoughts onto yourself. The Bible has a counterintuitive message: The more God thoughts you have, the freer you will be. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are… Continue Reading …

What Does It Mean to Love Others As You Love Yourself?

Christ told us to love others as we love ourselves, but how do you do that in fallen bodies and souls that have mixed motives that are continually driving us to love ourselves more than others? Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes,… Continue Reading …

Ep. 114 How to Fix Your Communication Problems

Shows Main Idea – Lucia and I spent the first five years of our marriage never owning or confessing personal sin. And there was no asking for and granting forgiveness. Needless to say, we had communication problems. In this podcast, I’m going to walk you… Continue Reading …

Being Black Is Not the Most Important Distinction About Me

Much is being made today of the state of the so-called “black community.” Unfortunately, this is not breaking news. The truth is that we made much of the black community in the 1960s. …and the 1970s… …and the 1980s… …and the 1990s… …and… Well, you… Continue Reading …

Why Do You Criticize Ann Voskamp?

Lucia and I recently read a blog article that was mocking Ann Voskamp. It’s more accurate to say they were insulting Ann Voskamp. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google Play, SoundCloud, TuneIn, or Stitcher. If you want to comment on this… Continue Reading …