Helping People Live Effective Lives
Thinking like a victim is easy to do. Becoming a professional victim takes more work, but it can happen, especially if you’ve experienced repeated hurt for an extended period. And even though you are …
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Marriage counseling is the most common kind of counseling that I do. The reason for this is because marriages are the most common, long-term relationship between two people. Children typically leave …
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Member Question - I was once asked the following: "How do you encourage someone toward the Lord when they are angry at God for past difficulties? They are mad because God did not protect them or …
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Everybody is a victim. We all received a raw deal. Nobody comes into the world unscathed. And after we arrive, we are hurt by others. However, it’s our choice to be angry with God about the life we …
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I have been accused (my word, not theirs) of writing too much about how husbands need to change. Of course, my "accusers" are husbands. They may be right. I do think a lot about husbands for two …
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The first step in resolving relational conflict with someone is to examine your heart while addressing your attitude toward the person with which you have conflict. Listen to the podcast Our …
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