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Ep. 168 The Dawning Reality of Who You Really Married

Shows Main Idea – When expectations, hopes, and dreams for your marriage collide with reality, it can rest heavy on your soul and even tempt you to despair as you ponder the possibility of a “life sentence” with a spouse who may never change. Listen… Continue Reading …

Ep. 147 Who You Are Affects Your Relationships

Shows Main Idea –The person that you are on the inside always comes out and affects your relationships. If you have a Godward orientation, you will have a positive effect on others. If you have a selfish orientation, you will hurt your relationships. Listen to… Continue Reading …

Ep. 146 A Different Kind of “Happy Ever After” Marriage

Shows Main Idea – The majority of passages in the Bible that talk about marriage say explicitly (or imply) that there is personal responsibility. Meaning, you must work hard. But your effort does not mean you’ll get a Disneyesque “happy ever after” relationship with your… Continue Reading …

Ep. 111 Why Are You So Hard On Men, and Not Women?

Shows Main Idea – A reader asked why I write more to men and not to women. He is upset because men are continually beat down while women are given a pass. Here’s my response. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes,

Ep. 108 The Critical Call On Men to Submit

Shows Main Idea – A wife’s call to submission mirrors the husband’s call to submission, as he submits to God, which is evidenced by doing for his wife what his heavenly Father does for him. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes,

Ep. 99 Five Ways to Know If You’re a Real Man to a Woman

Shows Main Idea – I want to lead my wife, but I don’t know how. I don’t want to be a wussified leader. The problem is that my dad was not a good leader and I’m at a loss on how to serve my wife… Continue Reading …

Ep. 61 Ten Great Ideas When Caring for Couples

Shows Main Idea – What are some helpful ideas when counseling couples together? I’m not looking for content like how to counsel anger or unforgiveness, but I’d like to know some of the methods you use or think about when you meet with couples. This… Continue Reading …

Ep. 59 Four Reasons People Don’t Trust God – How You Can Help

Shows Main Idea – If you know someone who will not submit to the Lord, there are reasons why. You must know these reasons so you can help them. Being impatient or frustrated with them are not the responses they need from you. This podcast… Continue Reading …

Ep. 50 My Passive Husband Won’t Lead. Should I or Just Let Things Go?

Shows Main Idea – The passive husband is one of the most common problems in dysfunctional marriages. This problem is especially acute for the wife who is looking for her husband to lead the family. Should she let things go or should she lead him… Continue Reading …

Ep. 48 Can I Really Glorify God As a Stay-At-Home-Mom?

Shows Main Idea – The stay at home mom role is one of the most challenging jobs in the home. It’s servant-minded multi-tasking at a supremely high level that requires God’s favor to perform well. There are few ministry positions more important than that one.… Continue Reading …