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Ep. 83 Dear Wife: Build Up Your Husband

Shows Main Idea – I hear so much about men and how many times they’re not connected or “all in”. However, what I hear from most of my friends and contemporaries is the wife gives most of her time to everything and everyone but the… Continue Reading …

The Difference Between a Wife and a Mother

Everyone serves in multiple roles, but all functions are not equal. I’m a child of God, husband to Lucia, father to our children, and friend of many people. I prioritize each role in the order of importance. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on… Continue Reading …

Hey Rick, What Does Your Wife Wear To the Beach?

What you wear to the beach is a secondary preferential matter, but our clothing choices should never be divorced from community input. Our physical bodies are part of a greater body that has a corporate responsibility of putting the beauty of Christ on display in… Continue Reading …

My Job Robbed My Wife of the Intimacy She Deserves

When the intimacy you have with your idols replaces the intimacy you should have with others, you’re walking on the precipice of sin’s black hole. This reflective article is not about any individual but a composite of twenty years of counseling people who found their… Continue Reading …

Ep. 55 I’m Divorced. Should I Correct My Ex-wife?

Shows Main Idea – I am divorced but still have interaction with my ex-wife. We get along but sometimes she’s irritating. Is it right, or is there ever a time to correct her? Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes,

Ep. 47 Should a Pastor Beat and Abuse His Wife?

Shows Main Idea – If a pastor abuses his wife by beating her, is he wrong? Is there justification for hitting his wife? If you had oversight over him, how would you respond? Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes,

Should a Wife Respect Her Unkind Husband?

Should a wife respect her unkind husband? While the answer is an obvious and absolute yes, is it right to make that blanket edict without filling in this problem with a biblical understanding? Paul would say absolutely not. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are… Continue Reading …

Ep. 45 How a Wife Can Motivate a Husband to Be Passive

Shows Main Idea – A wife can unwittingly motivate her husband to continue in his passivity. If she does not understand the dynamics of his heart she may be unable to cooperate with the LORD in restoring him (Galatians 6:1-2) to the leadership role that… Continue Reading …

The problem when black churches treat the pastor’s wife as “co-pastor”

From the Darrell Harrison series: 10 things the black church should stop doing This is the second in a series of commentaries I’ll be writing on traditions and customs that, in my humble opinion, are doing damage to the missional purpose of what is commonly… Continue Reading …

Ep. 390 Webinar: Making Sense of Our Sexually Confused Culture

Ep. 390 Webinar Making Sense of Our Sexually Confused Culture

Show Main Idea: Today’s sexually confused society is not difficult to understand if you interpret the problem through the correct filter. It used to be that everyone identified as a male or female, based on objective anatomical evidence at a child’s birth. In the past… Continue Reading …