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The Reason I Dated a Lesbian

When I was a single man during the 90s, I worked a third shift, dead-end job at a glue factory. I was grateful to have the job, but it was a difficult place to work. There were about thirty employees, three of whom were practicing lesbians. Listen to the… Continue Reading …

Interview With a Victim of Adultery

Adultery is a “form of death” that causes a “grief” like something died. In a way, there was a death. The difference is that there can be a “resurrection” of the marriage, but that does not change the grief. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts… Continue Reading …

Sex For a Woman, According To a Man

Sex for a Woman, According to a Man

Sexual intimacy is one of the quickest indicators that reveal how a couple is doing in their marriage. Why? Because it is the most physical and intimate thing they will do together. It is different from talking, dating, dinner, or a movie. Sex requires more.… Continue Reading …

Five Surefire Ways to Motivate Your Child to Use Porn

Before I get into five surefire ways to motivate your child to use pornography, let me establish two critical points. The first is that no parent wants their child to become involved in pornography. We all agree on this. Listen to the podcast You may… Continue Reading …

Backward Porn Addiction: Drawing Attention to Yourself

I think most of us understand the traditional definition of porn addiction. Typically, it’s in the context of a guy lusting after a girl. Active lust toward another person is still the primary way porn is acted out in our culture. A backward porn addiction… Continue Reading …

Having Sexual Conversations With Your Spouse

You know your marriage is stable when you can have sexually oriented conversations with your spouse. Outside of having intimate discussions about what the Lord is doing in your life, there is probably no other kind of marital talk that reveals the real strength of… Continue Reading …

Seven Ways Facebook Is Similar to Using Porn

You will be alarmed when you realize how much Facebook is similar to porn. Though you may be aghast at the idea of pornography and those who use it, the sobering truth is that Facebook can be a subtle and deceptive substitute that is entrapping… Continue Reading …

Case Study: Past Sex Thoughts In Current Marriage

Case Study_ Past Sex Thoughts In Current Marriage

Biff comes to you for counseling. He is a member of your church and recently married Mable. Her family has been members of your church all their lives. Mable grew up attending Christian schools and is now a teacher in your church school. Their relationship… Continue Reading …

I Had Sex As a Teen. Will God Forgive Me?

The gospel frees us from all our past sins, but some Christians do not know how to be released from their past actions. The long-term guilt can be deadly to their souls, as well as their current relationships. That’s what happened to Mable. Listen to… Continue Reading …

Case Study: The Spear You Sharpen May Stab You In the Heart

The Spear You Sharpen May Stab You In the Heart

Five years ago Mable met Biff and had a whirlwind dating relationship. They were impure but rationalized what they were doing by marrying hastily. Though friends had reservations about them marrying, no one spoke into their lives because the couple kept themselves at arm’s length… Continue Reading …