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One Powerful and Practical Way to Give Peace to Someone

The peace of God comes to you in three ways. (1) God gives it to you. (2) You have to think about the right things to have God’s peace. (3) God’s peace will either be helped or hindered by those closest to you. Listen to… Continue Reading …

Ten Things to Know Before You Can Help Someone

Talking about change and willing to change can be two different matters. If you have not prepped your soul for change, you won’t change. You may modify your behavior. You may be able to do damage control with your relationships, but transformation is a gift… Continue Reading …

Learning How to Help the Person Who Hurt You

Do you know how to distinguish between the symptomatic problems of a person and the “root cause” issues? A person can become so irritated with the frustrating behaviors of someone that they miss the real cause, which keeps them from providing grace-motivated, Bible-centered solutions to… Continue Reading …

Why Do I Do That? Can You Help Me?

Have you ever wondered why you do the things you do? Have you ever wanted to change the way you are? I think most of us are this way. We know things about ourselves that we do not prefer and would like to change. That… Continue Reading …

Forcing Someone to Change Will Blow Up Your Relationship

Test yourself before you read this piece. How do you think about those you would like to see change? The areas of reflection are your motives and practices. If those two things are wrong, the change you are hoping for will probably not happen. Listen… Continue Reading …

My Husband Is Immature. How May I Help Him Change?

Would you be willing to write about living with an immature husband and how to biblically respond to him? I need help; if you could give me some advice, I would much appreciate it. You may want to read: How To Biblically Lead Your Husband… Continue Reading …

The Most Powerful Way to Help Someone Change

Your friend needs to change. How do you help her change? Maybe your husband is stuck in a bad habit, and you want him to change. What is your change process? Perhaps your wife is nagging and criticizing you. How are you helping her model… Continue Reading …

The Most Effective Thing You Can Do In Your Marriage

Full biblical repentance is probably the most important thing any couple can do in their marriage. I don’t think there is a way to overstate how important it is. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google Play, SoundCloud, TuneIn, or Stitcher. If… Continue Reading …

How to Help Someone Who Does Not Want to Help Himself

Some of the toughest people to try to help are those who refuse to help themselves. There is a way to think about them and possibly come alongside them while trusting the Lord to bring the needed change. Listen to this podcast Our podcasts are… Continue Reading …

The Hardest But Best Way to Help Someone Change

Whenever you sin in response to what you are not getting from someone, even if that thing you want is a good thing, your heart is in a dangerous place. Before you can move forward in the relationship, you will need to change, especially before… Continue Reading …