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The Reward Of Doing It In the Dark

Do you find it difficult to look your spouse in the eye so you can communicate intimately? Is it hard for you to be vulnerable with your spouse? If so, I have some practical advice for you. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on… Continue Reading …

Do You Make Your Spouse Pay For Her Sin?

When your spouse sins, who pays for it? Do you make her pay for what she did wrong or do you take her to Jesus and show her how His death is enough punishment to remove her transgressions? Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are… Continue Reading …

The Most Effective Thing You Can Do In Your Marriage

Full biblical repentance is probably the most important thing any couple can do in their marriage. I don’t think there is a way to overstate how important it is. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google Play, SoundCloud, TuneIn, or Stitcher. If… Continue Reading …

Mind Mapping Insecure Husband and Critical Wife

The insecure husband and critical wife is a complex relational problem but not one without a gospel solution. This case study and Mind Map will carefully walk you through how to untangle this marriage problem. Listen to the podcast Our podcasts are on iTunes, Google… Continue Reading …

The Insecure Wife Who Lives With a Harsh Husband

When a wife has been shaped by her past to be insecure marries a husband who is prone to harshness, their marriage will be an endless loop of relational conflict. The first responsibility is for the husband to learn how to build up his wife… Continue Reading …

Ten Ways to Kill Your Marriage

Marriage counseling historically has been the most common type of counseling I have done. It makes sense because the marriage relationship is unique in that there is not supposed to be an escape clause. Marriage is for life. This makes marriage the perfect context for… Continue Reading …

The Most Perfect Relationship You Will Ever Have

You are a relational being because God created you in His image (Genesis 1:26). God, who has always belonged to a community—a Trinitarian community, made you in such a way that you want to belong to a community (Genesis 2:18). Listen to the podcast Listen… Continue Reading …

Case Study: Unholy Trinity – Man, Ministry, Marriage

Biff loves the ministry. He enjoys it so much that his family is falling apart. He has been living a dual life for several years as he has secretly attempted to hold his family together while publicly telling others how to follow Christ. Listen to… Continue Reading …

The Reason We Decided to Blow Up Our Marriage

Even with the best intentions and truest love, a marriage can go to some dangerous places. Ours went to a bad place, which is why I decided to blow it up and rebuild it on a surer foundation. Listen to Rick read this post: Our… Continue Reading …

Something Must Come Between Us, Or We’ll Hurt Each Other

There is wonder working power in the cross of Christ. It can change you and your relationships, but the process is not a passive exercise. If the cross is not between you and others, you’ll hurt those you should love. Listen to the podcast Our… Continue Reading …