A Quick and Simple Way to Know a Person
Show me a person’s friends and the content that he consumes, and I will tell you what kind of individual he is. The quickest and… Read more »
How to Keep from Being Overwhelmed by People Problems
Nobody loved people more than Jesus. Nobody was less controlled by people than Jesus. He found and lived in the perfect relational sweet spot of,… Read more »
I Need Help Counseling a Stubborn Couple
Every discipler knows that they cannot change anyone. This worldview becomes acute when you’re trying to help someone transform. Though you cooperate with the Lord… Read more »
Letter to a Counselor, Counseling a Rebellious Teenager
Building trust in any discipleship context can be a challenge. Some people’s hurt is so deep that they fortify their guardedness. Understanding the interpersonal dynamics… Read more »
The Simplest Counseling Advice You’ll Ever Receive
If you are discipling someone, I’d like for you to share this article with them. You will not find better counseling advice than what I’m… Read more »
Do You Want My Attention or Do You Want My Care?
Which is more important to you? To receive a leader’s attention or receive their care? What if you turned the question around and looked at… Read more »
When Is Enough, Enough? The Hardest Thing You Will Ever Do.
Everybody you love will not change into people that love God and others more than themselves. How you respond to this fact will determine the… Read more »
What to Do When Counseling Is Not Going Anywhere
Every person that you meet will not change after you talk to them. Your dilemma will be deciding on how long you should continue with… Read more »
Counseling Can Be a Lying Profession
I had a conversation with two counselees, and the issue of lying came up. I mentioned to them that telling falsehoods is a regular part… Read more »
Six Ways Things to Make the Most out of Counseling
Sound counseling can guide you, but it might not give you precisely what you want. These six things will help you to guard your heart… Read more »
