The Problem Letting Religious People Know The Real You
Becoming a Christian does not remove the fear of being rejected by others. Christianity provides you with a new people group and new opportunities to… Read more »
Secret-Keeping Destroys Lives and Relationships
There is a temptation with all of us to keep certain things hidden from others. Our high sense of shame and self-awareness tempts us from… Read more »
Should I Keep My Friend’s Sin Secret?
Your friend comes to you with a secret sin. How would you respond to him? You are his accountability partner, and he asks you to… Read more »
Is It Necessary to Use Biblical Categories to Problem-Solve?
How you listen and respond to someone will determine the kind of help you provide. Everybody does not work through their problems biblically, which is… Read more »
Counseling Can Be a Lying Profession
I had a conversation with two counselees, and the issue of lying came up. I mentioned to them that telling falsehoods is a regular part… Read more »
Why I Can’t Tell My Spouse Everything I’m Thinking
Being married and being a Christian does not automatically mean you will connect and relate to your spouse at the most secret part of your… Read more »
Two Essentials If You Want To Change
Transformation does not happen automatically or miraculously. If you want to change, you will have to challenge yourself at the deepest and most difficult level… Read more »
How Can I Be More Honest with My Spouse?
How honest can you be with your spouse? Is your marriage vulnerable and safe enough to communicate honestly? Are you free from critique and condemnation,… Read more »
Case Study: If I Tell the Truth, My Christian College Will Expel Me
Biff is in his junior year at a local Christian college. And he struggles with pornography and masturbation. When he was 12-years old, his best… Read more »
Why It Is Easier to Lie Than Tell the Truth
Most Christians do not tell big bold lies. We know better. It is morally wrong not to tell the truth. To willfully alter reality to… Read more »
