So, You Want To Get Married? – (30,000 words) – If you are thinking about dating, courtship, or getting married, this could be the most important little book you’ll ever read. I realize what I just wrote may come across as over-statement or hyperbolic marketing, but it is not. I have been in the counseling profession for many years, and the most common counseling situation that I have counseled are marriages in trouble. These troubled marriages do not just happen. The problems in any marriage are rooted in the two people who are married, before they were married.
It can be a challenge for a person to see future marriage problems with their current dating partner. This is why I wrote this book. I’m not trying to talk you out of dating or getting married. My goals are to come alongside you to help bring more clarity to how you think about (1) dating, (2) the person you are dating, and (3) what your future could look like with the person you are dating. What you see is not what you’re going to get. Once you’re married, the real person will be clearer than you ever imagined. I hope this book will help you see what you may not be able to see right now, and how God can give you courageous favor to do the right things.